I hate to hear people avoiding the doctor because it's so important to make sure all of your parts are in working order. If your doctor is rude, definitely find another. My first gyn told me I was too furry and had to shave when I was 16 and didn't plan for anyone to look at me naked for quite a while. She also told me to go on weight watchers. She really hurt me and I refused to see her ever again even though my mom and sister thought she was a great doctor.

Also my cousin didn't want to go to the gyn because she felt too fat and when she finally got the nerve to go, they found she had advanced breast cancer and she died. It could have been treated if she had gone to the doctor sooner. So I'm really paranoid and thinking about it breaks my heart. Just my soapbox, sorry.